I relate to this so, so much! Nodded my head the whole way through. Mine and Freddy’s tiffs are usually about my struggle to plan things and manage finances — at least in the way *he* does those things. But the more I’ve gotten to know my brain and how it processes, the more I’ve been able to find ways of doing the things that have been historically very difficult for me (the Notion app has played a huge role in this; I now depend on it for organizing my life). Now Freddy and I are combining our methods and it’s a continued work in progress, but it’s made a massive difference for me in reducing my shame. Because there was never anything wrong with my brain — I just needed to find my own way of doing things. Thank you for this 💛
Now I've got to check out the Notion app! I'm curious how you and Freddy go about combining methods--id it a matter of lots of open communication? Any tips?
I relate to this so, so much! Nodded my head the whole way through. Mine and Freddy’s tiffs are usually about my struggle to plan things and manage finances — at least in the way *he* does those things. But the more I’ve gotten to know my brain and how it processes, the more I’ve been able to find ways of doing the things that have been historically very difficult for me (the Notion app has played a huge role in this; I now depend on it for organizing my life). Now Freddy and I are combining our methods and it’s a continued work in progress, but it’s made a massive difference for me in reducing my shame. Because there was never anything wrong with my brain — I just needed to find my own way of doing things. Thank you for this 💛
Now I've got to check out the Notion app! I'm curious how you and Freddy go about combining methods--id it a matter of lots of open communication? Any tips?
Lots of communication and also making Freddy use Notion 😂 Would be happy to talk more about it anytime! All the things!